You may have noticed that I've not posted here in over two months. Well, to make a long story short, my computer broke sometime before Christmas. And guess what.... you can't get a Mac computer fixed in our country. Nope. Not happening here. And unfortunately, our next visa run (to a place where they could fix it) wouldn't be until the end of January, so I would just have to wait.
Finally the time came for us to go to Bangkok, but once we were there and the technicians at the Apple Store looked at my computer, they said we would have to leave the computer with them for three weeks to fix it. Our visa run at that time was only for three days, so we accepted the fact that we would just have to leave it with them in Bangkok until the next time we could come back and pick it up. Since we do visa runs every ten weeks, this meant I would be without my computer for another couple months. Ugh!
However, with the help of a few friends living in Bangkok and some others who live in our country who had to travel to Bangkok and back, I was able to get my computer back this week! Joy, joy joy!
Anyway, things are back to normal now, whatever "normal" may be.
Actually, I feel as if we've reached a point of a new "normal" these days, and it's not one similar to our American culture. Lately, I've been realizing how much our family has adjusted to life here, and the culture of where we're living has become our new normal.
Let me explain...
It used to be in the past, whenever we would travel to Bangkok to renew our visas, while we were there, we would stock up on our most beloved American-style groceries and supplies to take back with us into our country. Things like potato chips, boxed cereal, frozen waffles and good bacon and sausage. (We would freeze the meats and waffles in Bangkok and then put them in our suitcase to bring back with us. They don't thaw during our short return flight and they go straight back to the freezer at our house until we're ready to use them.)
It was Zoë who pointed out that we had stopped doing that awhile back, and in fact during this past visa run, I don't think we even went to the grocery store there to purchase items.
"We've just learned to adjust to using only the items we can get in our country," I explained to her when she asked why we weren't doing all that anymore.
Now I get ground pork at the local market and add my own spices to make it taste just like (if not better than) the Jimmy Dean sausage we bought in Bangkok.
We've also discovered that we're not using our air cons and electricity in general as we used to. Of course, we're not to the really hot season yet, but the other day we were sitting in the dark for about an hour before we realized that the electricity had come back on after an outage. We didn't realize it because we've just become accustomed to doing without it.
Another example of our cross-culture adjustment comes from our recently cancelled membership to the American Club. The American Club is a recreational facility set up by the American embassy here that had a workout room with all kinds of equipment and a pool. It is also really the only place in the city to get American food.
But the prices there keep going up. (Everything for expats is getting more expensive in this city since the floodgates have opened and you have businesses like Coca Cola and Pepsi and GM coming in willing to spend any amount of money necessary to get their foot in the door in this burgeoning economy. You can't blame the local people for wanting to make money from those types, but unfortunately it also effects the rest of us foreigners at the same time.) Anyway, we just reached a point where we almost never went to the Club because we've learned to live without those American conveniences.
Other little things.... like it doesn't seem so unusual anymore to meet a friend on the street and they ask if I've recently had diarrhea. It's just a common greeting to them. You know like in America we say, "Hi. How are you?" Here they say, "Have you eaten today?" and people are constantly asking me about my bowel movements. Everyone is also always commenting on other people's weight. The local people think they are giving us a compliment when they tell us how fat we look. Being "fat" means you've had plenty of food to eat and that's a great thing.
On the other hand, I've had several people tell me lately that I've gotten thinner and they wonder what's wrong with me. They say it with a sad face and they're so surprised when I respond with "Thank you!"
As I'm sitting here typing these things, I can't help but think about my local friends who are going to read this blog. Can I just say to those people right now, there's nothing I want more than becoming adjusted to your culture. Well, there might be a few things I want more like seeing salvation for all the lost and maybe world peace, but becoming more "Asian" is right up there on my list of priorities.
I did miss out on reporting some good things that happened in our lives in the last two months without a computer.
There was Christmas.
It was a great time of family and friends and giving.
Check out this Vimeo link to a video I made showing us giving Christmas gifts in some local villages.
"Christmas Giving" - click here (Video password: Christmas2013)
CJ ran his first MARATHON!!!
We were so proud of him.
He had pulled his hamstring three weeks before the race and we weren't really even sure he would be able to participate. That's why when he crossed that finish line, we were going crazy for him.
He truly proves that with God all things are possible!
(Crossing the finish line video - coming soon!)
We also had the opportunity do some ministry in January. I was invited by a local friend to go with her to visit her family who lives quite a distance away. Anytime anyone gives us the opportunity to go into a new village, we jump at the chance.
In order to get there, we first rode 45 minutes in a car down to the river crossing. Then we ferried down the river, and once we reached our landing, we rode motocycles down dusty and bumpy roads about an hour to reach this village. Let me just say, if you've never rode a motorcycle side-saddle (because you're wearing a longyi) carrying big bags of food and gifts while holding on for dear life to a complete stranger that's driving the motorcycle, then you haven't lived. :)
It was overall a great experience and I loved spending time with my friend's family.
I also got to meet a special lady doing a special work in this village. I hope to get to spend more time with her in the future. (See our upcoming newsletter for more information about this.)
The girls are also doing good.
Zoë started playing soccer and Miá was awarded Student of the Month for 4th grade.
Last, but not least. (Are you still reading my ramblings?) We have news to report...
We are less than 10 months away from our visit to the States!
We hope to arrive back at home just in time for Christmas this year. Then we plan to stay so that the girls can attend the full 2015 spring semester at school in Mississippi before returning back here.
We know we will have to do some traveling during our Stateside trip because we want to visit all our friends and family living in different places as well as taking advantage of the opportunity to speak to various churches whenever we can, but our home base will be in Columbia.
Of course, now that we've adjusted to life in Asia, I wonder how difficult it will be getting reacquainted with life in America?
When you see us, just be patient with us and don't be embarrassed when we ask you if you've recently had diarrhea. :)
Still, between now and then, we've got a lot of work to do here, and we're so thankful for the many ways Father has blessed us in this place.
We've got some really great local friends who mean so much to us.
We've got co-workers who have become like family.
We are thankful for a great church in this place with such a warm and wonderful body of believers.
We are thankful for our friends at home who support us and love us and pray for us in ways that continually humble us.
All in all, life is good.
P.S. It's not too late to plan a trip here! We'd love for some of our friends at home to come see and get involved in our work in this wonderful city. Pray about it!


















